Its freezinggggg

Aww thanks hun. Cant emphasise how much that means.
I'm also on msn, facebook and registered at similar sites such as GG, Proud Parents {or whatev its called} , plus l have lots of free mins on my mobile so l can ring mates but its differen talking to someone in person if you get what l mean.
TV totally bores me even though we have all the channels, you just cant beat human company.

i dont have any friends round here,as there all related and its hard to trust them.theres to much going on round here at the moment,shootings and drugs.my msn is coolyjulie@live.co.uk im on northwestmums,meetamum and parentstogether.as well as facebook my friend who i talk to,lives abit away from me,i try to see her once a fortnight but its not the same as being able to pop imn anytime you need a chat

Thanks for your msn id. I've just added you. Mine is shehreen17@hotmail.com.
I know what you mean about people knong eachother and not being able to trust anyone. I find somtimes its better to keep cetain things to yourself than tell anyone as they can exaggerate things or make em 10 times worse. Umer has a distant relative who lives in London so we speak on the phone about once a month. I can trust her, l confide in her and vise versa.
l had a really good friend at work, she is turning 21 soon and before l went on matrenity leave she kept saying dont loose contact and stay in touch. She only visited me twice, even though l have returned back to work she seem's slightly immature and all she has on her mind is going out saturday to get pissed and thats not something which interests me. Will add you on facebook when l get a chance to log on there.

i think once we have children,we mature.its are motherely instincts,i havent got pissed in years.i like afew cans over the weekend but i know when to stop.cant be doing with the hangovers and 5 kids.will you be haveing anymore kids?
ive just added you on msn,we can chat later.when kids are in bed,im glad youve got a good friend.everyone needs someone to talk to

soo many people have asked me if l plan on having more kids...my answer is yes but not yet for a long time. Will wait for Daniyah to be about 3 or 2 and a half then.
I would like for her to have a little brother or sister to play with, l dont want her growing up being a only child or lonely. For instnce during my child hood l had 2 brothers and 2 sistersall older than me yet l was soo lonely as they were soo nasty to me. l want to make sure that Daniyah doesnt feel any loneliness in her childhood and has a good close relationship with her siblings.

When l was single, way before l met Umer l went out, done the drinking and all that and to be honest its nothing that exciting. Dont know why some people make such a big fuss out of it.

Infact l owuld save the money that l would normally spend on the alcohol and use it on something better such as clothes, make up, day trip to london etc etc.

i did the drinking to,when i was younger.its nothing exciting,id rather be home looking after the kids.it is nice going out sometimes but it costs to much and im forever thinking of the kids i had all my kids close together,so they will grow up together.they do fight but dont all siblings

Course all siblings fight. If they didnt would be worried .
I know what you mean about not gong out. Me and Umer we prefer home cooked food, you really enjoy it because you cook it the way you like it plus you know whats gone in it and it has fresh ingredients. With restaurat food you're not always guaranteed to get what its says on the menu, most cases the ingredits are not fresh, the person cooking it can have all sorts of germs then there's the price. You would think that Gordon Ramsay came and cooked it with how much they charge.

I'm the same like you. I rather stay indoors, cook something together, enjoy the meal, then curl up on the sofa with a good dvd .

so true,we like are home comforts and were safer being in the house

Very true. It shocks me the things they show on the news. Only a few weeks ago l watched this documentary on channel 4 about a girl who broke up her bf after he violenty raed her for 6 hours in a hotel room. He was soo annoyed with her forbreaking up with him, that he took revenge and got someone to throw acid across her face. Did you watch it?
These things scare me soo much. Some people are pure !

i didnt see it but i know what you mean.i live in fear from my ex,hes out of prison and i know he will want to see jade but he cant.ive heard all stories of fathers killing themselves,along with the kids.cos they cant see the kids

I dont blame you. Just be careful.

i hate going into town and letting my kids out but i cant live like this.i just wish i knew were he was

thats understandable hunny is there way find out where he is maybe police or probation service xx

nobody will tell me,ive tried

That's what l was gonna suggest the police. You just have to be on your toes. x

im always on my toes,when i go out without john.its horrible but im always looking over my shoulder

Aww poor you hun. It's such a hey cant do anything. What l have found is the law tends to protect the ones who are in the wrong and not the innocent!

yeah yr right there babe im talking from experience mad how this system works xx

Hun you take care am off to bed.Nite nite and x

yeah i will tahnks yeah night babe look forward chatting with u tomorrow after work xx

thanks ladies,im off to bed now.xx

and meeeeeeeeee night babe xx