i give up!!!!!

hey all i dunno if its just me bein hard or not give ur honest opinion.

to cut a long stay short my other half goes out his way to his family even if we've plannesd summit everythin either gets dropped or changed for them especially his sister. this causes argguments, quite bad ones at that cause im fed up of it he even walks his sisters dog. for exmaple tonight i was plannin puttin girls to bed early and just havin me and him time seen as im on holiday this week and we dont really get night to ourselves as i work till 11 some nights ....... but thats all up in the air now as he has had to take his mum to work then pick up boxes for his sister from his mums work. but wen he went to drop them off at his sisters she wasnt in so he come home but had to go bac round wen she was in. then hs dad phoned to get him a pint of milk from the shop and take it up. i wouldn't mind so much if they us as much as he does them but none of them would go out there way like he does to us. of course everytime i flip at him he goes in a huff. i just wish he would say no to them like he says no to me. xxxx rant over sorry xx

oh babe i b upset too i bee there big babe ot o they expect him do everthing but not being funny he needs to say no sometimes i know its family but there has to be a limit surely xx

I dont blame you hun i would be the same as you. you got to have you time as well

So i'm not over reactin then? i'm now sat up in my bed alone. i really dunno wot to do and anytime he goes to drop summit off he can't just drop Hv off and knave he's got to be in there for at least 5 mins. tonight he was bway for an hour to drop 2 things off about 3 streets away Xx

So i'm not over reactin then? i'm now sat up in my bed alone. i really dunno wot to do and anytime he goes to drop summit off he can't just drop Hv off and knave he's got to be in there for at least 5 mins. tonight he was bway for an hour to drop 2 things off about 3 streets away Xx

babe course not babe xx

no your not hun.

I think his family are taking advantage, why couldnt his dad go and get his own milk? ... if hes gonna keep jumping everytime they ask for something then they are just gonna keep doing it,

I dont think your overreacting in the slightest
xxx

His dad was just in from work. he offered to go get his dad only phoned to ask him to get his mum to get Hv in the mornin but he went and got It seen as he was goin out he wasn't goin near a shop tho. i've tried tellin him there takin the pee but he won't listen. It effects the girls to cause she drops stuff we've planned to do with them if his family ask him to do summit and it's me that's got to pick up the peaces. i really dunno wot to do anymore Xx