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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 10:48 am

I know you should rest esp if you've had something like that done, but easier said than done. You cant sit on your bum and let house work pile up{well l cant anyway Smile }.

That is a loong time. lve heard lots of story's of people having had c - sects and their experienes havent been good. Poor you hun. You sound as though you've been through alot.

When l gave birth l had to have 3 stitches as l had some grazes. Midwife told me it would take m about 11 days to recover and feel normal down there, what a load of bull. l think it must have taken me about 3 monhs to feel completel normal. Cant imagine how long it takes some women who have ripped or have h to be cut.
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 10:52 am

yh my mate when she was 17 she had her first baby she was 8lb 9 and she tore inside and out poor girl, she hasd stiches inside and out loads of um about 90 ! took her about a year to feel normaly again poor girl x
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 11:00 am

It isvery painful, and dont know why but the midwives an health visitors lie to you. If l was one of em, and a patient asked me how long it would take em to recover l would be honest and it depends, everyone is different. x
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 11:03 am

exactly i hate it when they so on no it dont hurt ! lol x
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 11:48 am

i had stiches with all 3 of my and they were only tiny smallest being 6lb9,to me labour was the easiest bit but being stiched up i will never 4get it took 4 a long time 2 recover and even now and agen it doesnt feel right.i was told 2 hav a water birth if poss as ur less likely 2 tear.
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:17 pm

Shehreen wrote:
Exactly, they are such wimps considering what us women have to go through. They are realy really bda when they're ill, its like they want you to do everything for em.
Last year December time, Umer came down with the cold/flu. He was off from work for 1 week l think, one day l was at work and he sends me a txt asking me to come home as he isnt well. l panicked, lied to my manager went home and he just wanted me to sit with him, and basically in a nutshell give him some attention. Can you believe it?

I thought you can only have 3 c-sec's an all, but maybe it does depend on the consultant.
Here in Oxford midwife told me they only go for c -sects if baby is in breach or mother health is in danger, otherwise they prefer the natural way. l was happy with natural but was curious to know for woen who wanted a c - sect what happens. x


thats how it is everywhere - u can't just choose to have a c-section!!!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:19 pm

i have no comparison but recovery from c-section for me was fine tbh, i was up and about later in the day, showered and dressed as normal the next morning, then home a couple of days later.xxx
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:33 pm

wow thats good goin

celeb can hav c section as there 2 posh 2 push
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:33 pm

sara wrote:
wow thats good goin

celeb can hav c section as there 2 posh 2 push


thats cos they pay!!!xx
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:38 pm

lf only we all had the money but we live in the real world.

The midwife suggested afterwards to use warm water when am using the loo but that didnt really help to be honest. ln the end l sent Umer out to Boots and asked him to buy me some cheap towels and l used them whilst peeing. l know it sounds disgusting but it worked.
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:39 pm

see that wot i liked about the section tbh - at least i could see my sore bits.lol.ccc
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:50 pm

Yucky......lol. Knowing me l probbaly would he fainted, l cant stand looking at insides and gory things like that.
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 1:00 pm

i didn't see anything - matt nearly passed out tho.xx
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 1:27 pm

Shehreen wrote:
lf only we all had the money but we live in the real world.

The midwife suggested afterwards to use warm water when am using the loo but that didnt really help to be honest. ln the end l sent Umer out to Boots and asked him to buy me some cheap towels and l used them whilst peeing. l know it sounds disgusting but it worked.
i was told about water water aswell but like u it didnt work did u use tea tree in u bath 2 help with the healing???
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PostSubject: Re: anyone been sterilized   Fri Nov 20, 2009 4:32 pm

No they didnt suggest that. All the midwife said was whilst you pee pour warm water to neutralise your pee but did it heck work! So l would ue the cheap sanitary towels and pee on that, then l started using a plastic cup which l would pee in and that definitely helped.
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