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Jenny1977 forum promotor
Posts : 141 Points : 161 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-09-22 Age : 46 Location : Ramsgate
| Subject: constant arguing Sat Oct 31, 2009 6:04 am | |
| Is anyone else having a rough patch with their other half over money and not working so not much money to spare at the moment. Its all we seem to do at the moment as he wont pull his finger out and look for work. He is now whinging that i have spent £250 on a car so i can get back to doing care work as he can't be bothered to apply for any other work except bakery work which there isn't much around at the moment. It is causing so much stress between the 2 of us that i'm getting to a point thati might be better off without him sometimes. I can't stop crying about it at the moment | |
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Shehreen newbie
Posts : 694 Points : 727 Reputation : 1 Join date : 2009-10-27 Age : 40 Location : Oxford
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Sat Oct 31, 2009 1:03 pm | |
| Aww hun I'm soo sorry to hear that. What is the saying, money is the root of all . l totally agree with that. If you dont have enough there are arguments, and if you have too much there is still arguments. Life is soo difficult. Hubby works 6 nights and l am working 36 hours and in the process of for my crb to me back so l can do some agency work on saturdays as the pay is very good on weekends. Just the evening l was saying to hubby l feel bored kuz all seem to be doing is working and paying off this bill or that. We just hope 2010 will be a good year, and keep telling ourselves that things will get better soon. All l can say is try and talk to him, open yourself up and let him know what lengths you are going to and you would like to see him making more of a effort as things are getting on top of you. Wish you luck and am here if you wanna download anytime. Please dont hesitate. x | |
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jane Mods
Posts : 916 Points : 1029 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-10-24 Age : 46 Location : southport
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Sat Oct 31, 2009 3:44 pm | |
| aww i know what u mena a few months ago we were the same but im sure it will sort itself out | |
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LilMissTrippy global mod
Posts : 980 Points : 1092 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-10-22 Age : 53 Location : Newmarket, SUFFOLK
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Sun Nov 01, 2009 9:14 am | |
| Have been there and done that with my Ex .... went through years of hell ... am now very happy with Russ so there was a happy ending to my story ... I really feel for you chick big and hope you can sort through it all xx | |
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mum_of_2_princess_s
Posts : 138 Points : 144 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-10-13
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Tue Nov 03, 2009 7:33 am | |
| jenny i am in the exactt same position as u he looks on the jobcentre wen he feels like it well im out only doin part time work and worryin about xmas and how we're gonna make it possible and stuff. if u need to talk. some time u just wanna be single it would cause less hassle xx | |
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julie barnes forum promotor
Posts : 934 Points : 1036 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-10-27 Age : 55 Location : liverpool
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Tue Nov 03, 2009 12:03 pm | |
| we went threw abad stage,afew weeks ago.money and kids.caused alot of stress between me and john.i just told him,to buck his ideas up.we sat down and discussed things.if you want the realationship to work,it will.were all in the same boat and things will get tough,always remember to talk to each other.plus were all here for you,try not to argue in front of the kids.as they pick up on it and add to the stress. | |
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LilMissTrippy global mod
Posts : 980 Points : 1092 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-10-22 Age : 53 Location : Newmarket, SUFFOLK
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Fri Nov 06, 2009 6:06 am | |
| aww to all you lovely ladies xx | |
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marti Mods
Posts : 815 Points : 901 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-10-28 Age : 46 Location : Metro Vancouver British Columbia Canada
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Tue Nov 17, 2009 11:00 pm | |
| awwww big | |
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MELS Mods
Posts : 632 Points : 845 Reputation : 1 Join date : 2009-09-25 Age : 49 Location : Morrinsville, New Zealand
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Wed Nov 18, 2009 3:32 am | |
| Hi Jenny, Yes I am definitely going through it as well. Have lots of bad days - but sometimes I can have a run of good days as well | |
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julie barnes forum promotor
Posts : 934 Points : 1036 Reputation : 0 Join date : 2009-10-27 Age : 55 Location : liverpool
| Subject: Re: constant arguing Wed Nov 18, 2009 3:35 am | |
| i think were all the same,always remember.theres someone here if you need to chat | |
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